Anonymous asked: Your list of things that you're willing to accept makes me very sad. As a woman, I can't begin to comprehend how you are willing to accept this as your life. No judgement here . . . I got out of a marriage where the sex was pretty great when I pretended everything else was ok.
I’m sorry you marriage wasn’t what you wanted. Thank you for your kind words.
passionbypixley asked: I just saw your post. This is why I try to help women with. My heart hurts for you. You are pretty amazing man, husband, father to stick with it. Best luck
Thank you so much. I’m a hopeless optimist so I will hang in there.
Anonymous asked: It's clear that sex is very important to you & since she doesn't feel that way, then maybe you are better off with someone who shares those same desires as you. Even though you say you are happy in your marriage, you will always feel this emptiness
I’m not interested in someone else, I just wish she shared the same desires.
Anonymous asked: Ugh... Sorry if this comes across as harsh, but in my opinion you need some professional help. Just read your last post - and my friend - that is no way to live your life. Life is a precious gift and I believe we should strive to cherish each moment that we are given. I just can't follow any further. Good luck to you.
Sorry to chase you away, anon. You are correct that we should cherish each moment. I just needed to vent a little.
I will never have the sex life I desire
Intimacy will be an infrequent treat
I will be the doing the touching but never receiving the touch
I will never get to watch you do a strip tease
I will never have an orgasm while driving
I will never get to see you in lingerie
I will never feel like I can adequately perform because it happens so infrequently
We will never have sex 2 days in a row, or twice in a week
I will never get to find out what it is like to be woken up with a surprise orgasm
I will always feel inadequate to the other males around me
I will always feel that it is my fault
I will never feel like anyone can find me attractive
I will never know what it is like to try something new
I will never know what it is like to help you live out one of your sexual fantasies
I will never get the joy of watching you pleasure yourself
I will never know if a threesome is pleasurable or awkward
I will look back in 40 years and regret how much time we wasted
I will forever be jealous of every one of my friends knowing they have what I want
I will never know what it is like to be wanted, to be the object of someone’s desires and fantasies.
I will never know what it is like to get a sext or a sexy email from you. I will never know what it is like to be flirted with.
I will never know what it is like to be the thing you want most. I will always take a back seat to your friends and activities. I’m not perfect (hell, I may not even be a great husband) but the one thing you can’t say is that I don’t make you feel like you are what I desire most.
I will never know what it is like to lay there making pillow talk while we play with each other.
I will never know what it feels like to be wanted, to be a real husband, to be a real man.